June 17, 2014

Deidre M.  Singleton
PO Box 39877
Philadelphia, PA. 19107

PH: 804-304-8649
Email: deidre_singleton@hotmail.com

RE:  Precious-teens; CPS, Please Investigate Their Desire for Inquiry

Dear Christine Wright or Whomever Concerned (CPS),
	Masters Reginald (RQue) and Terrence Singleton of  6 Spyglass  Dr. Aiken, SC. 29803 would benefit if someone from your agency would take time from your busy schedule to investigate their wellbeing,  They have been orphaned since they were 5 and 7 years of age. Due to no fault of their own these young men are living beneath their blessings.  I fear that if their transition from their teenage years into their young adult years if not handled delicately and with an understanding of the gravitas of their losses these young men can become victims of their circumstances (their paternal family’s lack of altruism on their behalves). 
My concern for these young men is that as they become older and less supervised, the negative consequences of growing up without their dad and living with the belief that their mother (me) is insane, has abandoned them, and is responsible for the death of their dad will lead to many unhealthy and potentially dangerous outcomes for themselves or those within their community.  It is not my nature to sit idly by and hope for the best. I write to you hoping that you will check in on the young men mentioned above to insure they are NOT on par to be ensnared in our penal system or lost to drug addictions.
We as a nation are failing our greatest treasures (our children).  Unless citizens has had close encounters with the social services/child protective services within their communities they are likely to be naive as to the nature and power by which these services can salvage family ties or obliterate them. The system in Belton, Texas failed my two men in 2004 giving deference to the wiles of narcissi. I am not embittered, Que-sera-sera (whatever will be-will be); however, it is within my constitutional rights to secure the blessings of liberty for myself and my posterity. It is on behalf of my posterity that I ask you to check-in on RQue and Terrence (I do not know my sons by virtue of court rulings but they share13 chromosomes of mine <court rulings CANNOT change that>).  My spawn (and that of my baby-daddy) are at risk for being subjected to the misfortune of the 13th amendment of our constitution, having their liberties revoked if they lose their way. They were born free and neither Reggie (my baby-daddy) nor I spawned children so that they can live forlorn, compromised, or drug addicted lives. I am being proactive on behalf of my offspring. I will send this letter that I have composed to you, to the influentials of our time (i.e. the newspapers in Aiken SC, to Aiken Family Court, the President of the United States, Oprah, Dr Phil, Tyler Perry, social media (on their Facebook and Twitter page) and maybe even random citizens in Aiken, SC).  Too many people have died due to the oversight of many regarding the needs of our youths. Mass killings by teens and young adults should be recognized as what they are, FAILED PARENTING (or as in the case of my two sons, interfering and dysfunctional grandparenting)! The youths involved in mass killings or self destructive behaviors are NOT monsters; they are hurt by those acting on their behalves.  I will not sit idly by and wait for my sons to fall through the proverbial ‘cracks’ in our judicial or social system.  
My sons were born with silver spoons in their mouths  (not by accident but by design) but modern day folly has brought an end to the secure and happy home they were privy to at birth and left them subjugated and subject to the insecurities and wiles of their elderly paternal grandmother  (the elizabeth legare Singleton). I implore you to check-in on my sons to decrease the likelihood of their entry into the penal system  or drug world, by letting them know that their mother is alive, she loves them, values them, and is available to them for inquiry if they so desire (in person or by use of today’ s tech resources). This is NOT my attempt for reunification; that ship has sailed, the choice is now theirs, and my love is unconditional.  My only motive is to secure their blessings of liberty…anything else is just the minutia. My sons will NOT be ensnared in the judicial system or frequent drug houses while their paternal grandmother (the catalyst to the dysfunction within their family) keep salon dates, goes for tummy tucks, engage in the pleasures of love interests or any other creature comforts!  I will do what needs to be done to be proactive on behalf of my offspring to overt any additional elder imposed calamity (I prefer intervention over calamity…please intervene). 

Sincerely, 

Deidre Mott Singleton